One of the most important relationship tools is also one we have the hardest time using. We can often struggle to take other’s emotions seriously when we disagree with their thinking. In this video Greg introduces a new tool called Validation, why we struggle to use it, and how Validation helps us to build stronger relationships even when we disagree with how people are thinking.
Author: Greg Williams
You are either the person that people want to open up to, or you are the person they tend to clam up around. Which reaction you get is no accident. How do you become the person that people are eager to connect with and share the important things going on in their lives.
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There’s an awkward silence when someone shares something risky, and you think to yourself “What do I say? I don’t want to blow this!” How you respond in these moments can make a big difference to others. Learn why those situations feel awkward, and one simple sentence you can practice that will eliminate the awkwardness and strengthen your relationships.
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Sometimes it feels like listening just isn’t enough. We want to help. That’s not a bad thing, but how we offer to help can make the difference between drawing people in, or pushing them away.
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Whether you have a hard time not fixing others, or you are in relationship with someone who has that struggle, it can be helpful to know why that is happening.
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Practice Noticing Warmth
Warmth and Value are intimately connected. Learn how to pay attention to when people are communicating Warmth and how closely that is tied to whether or not you feel valued.
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Practice Consistent Warmth
Equal value is a non-negotiable in healthy relationships. Warmth is your most helpful tool to consistently communicate how much you value the people you care about. Master this simple step and see how it impacts the people around you.