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Practice Recognizing the Shame Triangle

The Shame Triangle is a relationship killer. It is a relationship style that will undermine the strength and power of others and create a relationship that is exhausting with little or no joy. Learn what the Shame Triangle is and how to spot it when it is happening.

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    Finding Freedom From Destructive Habits

    Overeating. Drug and alcohol abuse. Workaholism. The list goes on and on. There are few things more painful than struggling with a destructive behavior that we know is harming us and our relationships and yet we can’t seem to stop. Just as painful is watching someone we love struggle to find freedom from a destructive behavior. This video brings clarity and hope to situations that can sometimes feel desperate and hopeless.

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      How Toxic Churches Stay Toxic

      Whether you lead a church or have been hurt by a church, you have probably wrestled with why toxic churches can stay toxic for so long. How is it that churches can remain toxic for years if not decades? Why is it that each time we hear about a leader who has hurt someone it is not a one-time event, but a pattern that stretched back years and included multiple victims? Discover how churches – filled with people who really want to love well – develop a toxic culture and discover the steps you can take to prevent this from happening in your church or organization.

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        The Four Stages of Building Great Relationships

        Great relationships are more about skill than luck. When you learn the skills required to love well and connect deeply, it can improve your marriage and family, friendships and business relationships. At Heart Tools, we have created a step-by-step guide to mastering all the skills you need to have deep and life-giving relationships.

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          Stage 1: Loving Well

          Practice Understanding Your Emotions (Part 1)

          You’re emotions are signals that tell you how things are going in your relationship with the people and things you love. Knowing what emotion you are feeling and what it is trying to tell you is the foundational skill to master if you want to build great relationships. Discover what happiness, sadness, anger and fear are trying to tell you.

          To get your free Relationship Dashboard Check infographic, click this link: https://mailchi.mp/golovelive/infographic

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            Practice Understanding Your Emotions (Part 2)

            You’re emotions are signals that tell you how things are going in your relationship with the people and things you love. Knowing what emotion you are feeling and what it is trying to tell you is the foundational skill to master if you want to build great relationships. Discover what guilt, shame, loneliness and being conflicted are trying to tell you.

            To get your free Relationship Dashboard Check infographic, click this link: https://mailchi.mp/golovelive/infographic

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              Stage 1: Loving Well

              Practice Eliminating Phrases that Kill Connection

              You’re either helping others excavate their hearts, or you’re helping them bury their hearts. Discover the phrases we have developed a habit of using that bury others’ hearts and kill connection.

              To get a free copy of Greg’s list of Invalidating phrases that kill connection, click Invalidation Statements

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                Practice Allowing Others to Feel Their Emotions

                What happens when you bury someone’s heart instead of excavating it? Greg discusses this, and gives a simple step to help you practice allowing other people to feel their emotions.

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                  Practice Helping Others Feel Connected to You

                  If you want to create deep connection with the people you care about, where do you start? In this video Greg shares a simple step you can practice each day that will help you feel deeply connected to the people you love.

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                    Practice Feeling the Full Range of Your Emotions

                    How do you know if your heart is working right? Wouldn’t it be nice to restore your heart to it’s original factory settings? In this video Greg tells how our hearts can get short-circuited and re-wired, and the steps we can take to restore our hearts to the way they were meant to work.

                    To get a free copy of our Relationship Dashboard: Restoring Your Factory Settings tool, click this link: https://mailchi.mp/golovelive/c0yqz12bjx

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